Take your love! Don't back down! Should I? (He could be the ONE)?

Stephanie, I know nothing about Korean culture. Just couple general thoughts. Have you considered that he may just want an experience of dating a hot white girl? For bragging rights or for his own self-esteem or whatever else? And that he does not plan to break up with his Korean gf just see how it feels with an exotic date. For him you may be just that. An exotic date. Next thought is how do you know she does not care about him enough? How do you know you really care about him and not only about his hot looks? You never even talked to the guy much less had time to know him. And you already drawing conclusions about him and his gf. I get it that you may look much hotter and have more personality. So what? That sounds like strange competition for someone who dont even know. Final though. What if they were married? Would you also feel entitled to go after him based on his wife being plain and indifferent? Sorry hun but your reasoning sounds too high school to me. As in immature.